It’s Our 1 Year Anniversary!

As we have reached the first anniversary of our move to The Netherlands, I thought it was appropriate to take a minute to reflect on the past year and look toward the coming one.

This year began with a whirlwind of emotions-sadness to leave the place that we have called home for so long and the people that we care about, anxiety over leaving some of our things (mainly our house) behind and trying to begin the process of getting things arranged and settled here and begin at a new school, frustration over not understanding the language or knowing where or how to find things (or work our appliances!), excitement over being in a new place and getting to explore areas around Europe, utter chaos of trying to pick furnishings and put them all together and get the house set up so that we could function even without our shipment boxes with all of our things, and fear of getting lost or making a mistake in our new surroundings.  All in all, it was a stressful time.  At that exact moment in time one year ago, I really couldn’t have told you how this would all work out.

A few weeks into the journey, we started school and began to meet some people.  It was a bit lonely in the beginning as we tried to fit in among people who were already friends and comfortable in the surroundings.  For me, I felt isolated at the house a lot in the beginning.  I was a little scared to venture out and didn’t have a lot of people to venture out with.  There was still a lot of arranging and paperwork that needed to be done to register here, so we never quite felt settled.  In addition, we were dealing with some difficulties with the kids.  Our oldest seemed to just be numb and was showing little emotion and our youngest was exploding with anger and frustration and having a meltdown everywhere we went.  We were really wondering what we had done to our kids and feeling pretty down about it.

Finally, around month 2, our belongings arrived and we could actually arrange the house to feel more like a permanent home.  In addition, I was getting more involved at the school and with other parents.  I began my tennis lessons, joined a Bunco group and a book club and was doing some social activities.  The kids seemed to be settling in a little and some of the previous issues were beginning to resolve themselves.  Still, I would look at some of the people that I met that had already been here a year or more and see how comfortable they seemed navigating around and going places and how happy their kids seemed to be, and I felt like we would never get there.

By about month 4, I finally got my car which made getting to some places and tackling some tasks a lot easier.  We had been able to do some nice traveling and we all continued to make friends, so it seemed like things were going pretty well.  I was even feeling a bit more comfortable navigating around.

In month 5, we went back to the states for a brief visit.  After that, we had a resurgence in the emotional issues with our kids.  In addition, we came back to winter and, in The Netherlands, that means short days and very little sun.  Things definitely felt a little down, but we kept plugging along.

As we rounded the corner into month 7, we were able to head to sunny Portugal which was a much-needed break.  Now the days were longer and things were beginning to bloom.  It definitely put us in a better frame of mind.

By month 8 and 9, we were out and about a lot more.  We were doing a lot of socializing, and I felt pretty good about things.  Our youngest child seemed to be doing well and was enjoying things.  Our oldest still seemed to struggle with feeling down, though a big portion of that was the amount of homework being assigned and a lack of free time.

Finally, at month 10, I had to do some longer distance driving and navigating around some other places.  Suddenly, I realized that I had made it to where all those friends who had already been here a year were at when I thought I would never get there.  I was fairly comfortable going places, I knew my way around our city and where to find things, I had some knowledge of the language and wasn’t as worried about interacting with locals or making a mistake.  I felt like I had a strong social group and was going to be fine.  Then, we had a slight setback when I found out that almost every single member of the said social group was moving.  I really began to worry about how I would handle the upcoming year and some of the old panic and loneliness began to creep back in.

Now, as we hit the one year mark, am I saying things are not good?  No-for the most part we really like the area we live in, we enjoy the activities and vacation spots that we have available to us and we look forward to meeting new people this year.  So am I saying everything is great?  No-there are still times that I feel a little uncomfortable and out of place, there are still emotional struggles with the children, and there are still moments of doubt and uncertainty about the future.  I guess it’s just like many things in life; we just have to take it one step at a time, keep positive and enjoy ourselves as much as we can.  At one year, I am confident that we can handle things and that there is still much to look forward to.

So, as year 2 begins, what do we hope to accomplish this year?

  1. Learn more Dutch
  2. Visit more places (we’ve got some really great vacations and day trips on the horizon that we are really looking forward to).
  3. Take some biking excursions and/or work up a biking group with some friends.
  4. Take a small ladies trip or do some other exploring locally with friends.

Happy 1 Year Anniversary to us (and to this page) and Here’s to Year 2!!

“Gouda You Do” in Gouda?

The kids and I took a quick trip over to Gouda (pronounced how-da) a couple of weeks ago for the cheese market.  Though this market was much smaller and simpler than the one in Alkmaar, it was fun to watch for a few minutes.  The “hand-slapping to make a deal” portion of this market was a little more theatrical and lasted a little longer which the kids enjoyed.  There was also a nice open-air market around the cheese area where you could get some snacks and see some craftsman at work.  We made a pewter figure in a mold that was more than 100 years old (we also promptly broke said figure, but it is now repaired!).

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After checking out the market area, we walked in the old part of the city which was very quaint and lovely.

 

We checked out the old church, St. Janskerk, which was really large and had many stained glass windows-something that is not very characteristic of the churches in The Netherlands.

 

And, everyone knows that food is a highlight of many of our excursions so we were pretty excited to get to try the original recipe for the Stroopwafel which was first made in Gouda-delicious!  All in all, it was a perfect short outing to check out Gouda.

Quick Trip to Denmark and Sweden

This past week, the kids and I tagged along on a work trip taking place in Denmark.  We drove most of the way to Copenhagen (a nine-hour trip) on Wednesday evening and then finished the trek Thursday morning.  At that point, the kids and I ventured onto the train into the heart of Copenhagen.

Our first stop was the city hall square where we saw both the city hall building and a statue honoring what might be the most world-famous former resident of Denmark, Hans Christian Andersen.

 

After that, we strolled over to the Agnete and the Merman statue which is located under the water of a canal running through the city.

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Next, we moved on to Christiansborg Palace and the old stock exchange building in the area.

 

Finally, we made our way to our final destination for the afternoon, Tivoli, an amusement park and entertainment venue.  We rode a lot of rides, went in a funhouse and an aquarium and had a tasty Danish lunch of smorrebrod (an open face sandwich with various toppings; the two we chose being roast beef and meatball) and frikadeller (Danish meatball).

 

After many hours at Tivoli, we went to dinner where we had a Danish specialty of Stegtflaesk (a crispy fried pork belly) as well as another version of the open face sandwich, this time with fish and tiny shrimp.  Of course, the meal wouldn’t be complete without some local beer (this time Royal Beer Classic) and some dessert (Rodgrod med Flode) which is stewed red berries with cream.

 

The next day, the kids and I headed to Rosenborg Palace.  As we arrived, there was a military display occurring on the lawn next to the palace.  What appeared to be military and royal guards were lined up on the yard.  The band played, people marched around and awhile later the Queen of Denmark came out to inspect the troops.

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The palace itself housed the royal family’s most valued treasures from throughout the centuries including some of the crown jewels.

 

After this, we walked through the area known as Nyhaven which is the harbor area.

 

Then it was on to Amalienborg Palace to view the changing of the guard.

 

After all of these palaces, we decided to walk along the river on our way to see the famous Langelinie, Little Mermaid statue, located in a park along the river.

 

After all this walking, we decided it was time to treat ourselves to lunch.  So we found a hot dog stand and had the famous rod polse.

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We meandered back toward the train station checking out different buildings and side streets along the way before finding ourselves on the famous shopping street, Stroget.  So we checked out a few stores like Royal Danish (pottery) and the Lego Store.

 

And as if this day wasn’t already filled with a ton of sightseeing and walking, after meeting back up with the rest of our party at the train station, we headed over to Malmo, Sweden.

In Sweden, we wandered around the main historic area, checking out St. Peter’s Church, Lilla Torg (square in the historic area with tons of restaurants) and other historic buildings before finding a spot for dinner.

 

Dinner consisted of fish stew, Swedish meatballs and a hash made of shredded potatoes and bread crumbs in a sauce served with a thin hard bread and a hard cheese.

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After dinner, we walked to Malmo castle and drove by the Turning Torso before heading back to Denmark,

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The next morning we all headed to Roskilde to the west of Copenhagen, but not before snagging some breakfast of assorted Wienerbrod (Danish pastry).

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In Roskilde, we checked out the Viking Ship Museum where they have five original ships excavated from their fjord as well as many replicas, artifacts and activities for kids.

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After the museum, we wandered around the town stopping by a small Protestant church (where a casket was to the right of the door and a woman was playing an organ to the left of the door) and stopping in at the Roskilde Cathedral, which houses the tombs of 29 kings and queens.

 

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Then we stopped for lunch in the town square and here’s where things got interesting.  All week, we had been seeing people walking around wearing sailor’s caps.  Apparently, these are graduates and this is what they do to celebrate.  Beginning on Friday, we began seeing what we dubbed “party busses” all over town.  These were essentially open-bed trucks that were decorated, playing music, honking and carrying tons of graduates hanging out of the sides blowing whistles and yelling.

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While we were eating lunch, a “party bus” drove up to the square and about 25 graduates spilled out, ran to the fountain in the square and began singing, blowing whistles and, in the case of several young men, getting completely naked and climbing into the fountain.  The fountain party went on for about five minutes before they began redressing and heading on.  An interesting lunch with your kids to say the least!

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After lunch, we drove to Kronborg castle which was the setting that Shakespeare used in Hamlet.  It is right on the sea, so we walked around the outside of the castle and had a rhubarb cake before heading back into Copenhagen for our final dinner at Det Lille Apotek, the oldest restaurant in Copenhagen that used to be a pharmacy until the mid 1700s when it became a restaurant.  The decor hasn’t been changed since the mid 1800s when Hans Christian Andersen used to dine there.

 

 

Dinner consisted of roasted pork and a potato and meat hash.  The hash had chunks of pork and potato in a gravy topped with fried eggs and served with a side of pickled cucumbers and beets and some rugbrod (Danish rye bread).  The restaurant also brewed their own beer, so of course, we had to try that-very good!

 

Our trip ended with a stroll through a park in the city and a long drive home the next day.  Copenhagen was a great city and we had a lot of fun!  Two countries, historic landmarks, museums, an amusement park, royal guards, naked graduates and a queen.  Not bad for a quick trip!

The Day the Exam Results Came In

Yesterday was a big day for kids in their final year of school in The Netherlands.  It was the day that the results of their national exams came in.  Each student in Dutch schools that is at the end of their secondary school time takes school leaving examinations-some for the school itself and some that are national exams. Everyone that takes the national exams receives a call sometime during the day to let them know whether or not they passed their exam.  If they passed, they fly the flag of The Netherlands outside of their house and hang their backpack with the flag.  This is a celebration of their achievement and to let everyone know that they passed and have completed secondary school.  As we came home from school yesterday, it was apparent that many of our neighbors had received their call because there were several flags and backpacks dotting the street.  Just another different tradition that we have been able to learn about and witness.

Giethoorn- The Venice of The Netherlands

This past week we traveled to the city of Giethoorn in The Netherlands.  Giethoorn is only accessible by foot, bike or boat.  Giethoorn was created by religious zealots who settled in the area and began peat farming.  The methods by which they cut the peat out of the land caused waterways and bodies of water to form.  In addition, the farmers needed to cut canals in order to transport the peat more easily.  Thus, Giethoorn was formed into a town of water passages.

There are two ways to see Giethoorn.  You can park near the highway and walk the tourist boardwalk to the middle of the town which is the church (most of the inhabitants of the town are Mennonites).  Once in the town, you can use the pathways to walk or bike.  There are many tourist shops and restaurants along the main path and there are bridges to the homes and businesses on the other side of the main canal (most of these are not accessible to the public).

 

The other way to see Giethoorn is by boat.  You can rent a boat and explore on your own or you can book a tour boat.  The tour boats are “whisper” boats meaning that they are electric and thus do not make the noise of a fuel run boat.  The tour boats stick to the main canal and the lake to the other side of the town.  The smaller boats that can be rented allow you to go down smaller side canals along the homes.  There are many choices for renting a boat such as a rowboat, small motorboat, canoe or raft.

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There are only 2,600 inhabitants of Giethoorn and just like the tourists, their only way to get around town is by boat or foot.  In fact, there is farming that occurs in Giethoorn but the cows must be transported by boat to the fields for grazing.  All homeowners are required to inhabit in the town permanently.  Summer or rental housing is only found around the lake area where there are cottage style homes, camping areas and retreat facilities.

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We were lucky enough to arrive in Giethoorn in the early morning and walk the town on foot before many other tourists arrived.  The town was very peaceful and idyllic with lush gardens and manicured lawns.

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After a couple of hours, we took a tour boat around the canals and out to the lake.  And lest you think that the town is just a storybook town all day, keep in mind that as more and more tourists arrive (and there are plenty), the canals get very packed with boats.

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But even with the boat traffic, the town is very enjoyable.  We ate some lunch along the canal and enjoyed watching all of the boats go by.  After our lunch, we decided to visit the museum of Giethoorn.  It was a very nice museum with some interesting displays on what life in Giethoorn was like in the past.  We especially enjoyed the displays of traditional dress and old style farm housing.

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Giethoorn was a lovely town and a fun way to spend the day.  If we return, we plan to rent our own boat and do some further exploring, but that will be an adventure for another day.

 

 

Royal Flora Holland Flower Market

Yesterday, we drove up to Alkmaar to tour the Royal Flora Holland Flower Market.  The market is actually a flower auction.  It is the largest flower auction in the world.  Every weekday, millions of flowers are auctioned from 7am to about 10am.  The facility itself is impressive.  It is 1.3 million square meters which is the equivalent to 220 football fields.  Flowers are supplied by 6,000 suppliers from all over the world and there are 2,500 customers to which flowers are transported.  The facility uses technology to help them sell the flowers quickly and get them to homes in a shorter turn around time.

They test flowers at the facility as well in order to ensure the quality and shelf life of the flowers.  Labs simulating real-life household conditions such as temperature control and day and night variants in light are used to determine how long the flowers should last in our homes.

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On the visit, we were also able to see the auction floor where the biding on the flowers occurs.  It too is heavily automated and even allows for today’s buyers to bid remotely.  The entire process from arrival from sellers to the bidding, packaging and delivery to buyers is very streamlined and quite impressive.

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In addition to the flower market, they also have a plant auction which we did not see.

I never knew what an involved and high-pressure business flowers could be.  The tour was enlightening and quite enjoyable and man were there some beautiful flowers there!

 

Zeeland

Over the weekend we did a little island hopping in the province of Zeeland.  Zeeland is a southern province of The Netherlands made up of several islands.  We enjoyed a couple of beaches, watched kite sailing, saw a ton of sailboats and strolled the beach town of Domburg.  We also got to drive the longest bridge in The Netherlands and over the Osterschelde which is a massive dam.  A perfect excursion for a warm, sunny day!

A Taste of Luxembourg

This past week, we decided to drive to the small country of Luxembourg for a day visit to Vianden and Echternach.

Our first stop was Vianden Castel which towers over the quaint town below it.  The castle was constructed between the 11th and 14th centuries on the foundation of a Roman castle.  The tour of the castle was quite nice and you were able to see many of the important rooms like the bedrooms, kitchens and chapel as well as many artifacts.

After visiting the castle we decided to wander the city a little.  After the world’s slowest meal (even by European standards) in which each person’s dish was brought out separately and with about 20 minutes in between, we walked down past the little shops and homes to the river.  We saw Victor Hugo’s former home and a couple of small churches.

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Next, we headed to Echternach.  It was a very pretty city.  There were many old buildings such as the Orangerie and government buildings.

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We also went into an interesting small cathedral.

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We walked down the shopping area which was quite lovely and had a snack on the street.  Then we walked back along the river through a forested area.

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Luxembourg was small, but so was our time so it made for an easy opportunity to explore a bit of another country.  We plan to visit Luxembourg City, but that will be for another day.  Until then!

 

Strolling Antwerp

Last weekend we spent a few hours in Antwerp, Belgium.  At just an hour from our house, it’s a quick jaunt to the city.  We decided to follow an itinerary provided to us by an acquaintance, which highlighted some of the architectural and interest points of the city.

Our first stop was the Central Train Station.  It was really a beautiful building and on a Sunday morning, didn’t have too much of the hustle and bustle feel of busier times.

Next up, we strolled through some shopping areas on our way to the former house of the painter Peter Paul Rubens.  The house was not too impressive from the outside but in peeking through the entryway, it was actually very large and had extensive gardens.

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We made our way to the cathedral and then to the town hall and the market square in front of it.  20190526_135134

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After this, we strolled some of the streets to the river’s edge and then back through some small streets around the market square.  We saw this really cute sculpture and some beautiful carvings in the architecture.

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Finally, we stopped for a drink and a snack in The Eleventh Commandment-a very interestingly decorated restaurant and bar.  There were so many religious statues, artworks and other references.  It was quite unique.  They brewed their own beer as well and it was pretty good.

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Not a bad way to spend a few hours!

Say Cheese

We recently took an excursion to Alkmaar to observe the reenactment of the cheese market.  Alkmaar has had a cheese market and thriving cheese trade since the 1300s.  Cheese was brought to the market square in front of the weighing house for trading by the four different cheese groups, each identified by the color of the hat that they wear.  On trading day, the cheese is laid out in front of the weighing house.

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At 10am the bell is rung to signal the start of the trading.  At that time, the cheese bearers begin stacking cheese on their wooden carrying planks and taking it to the weighing scale inside the weigh house.  After it is weighed, the bearers haul it back to the square to the loading carts where it is carted off to buyers.

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All of this is overseen by the Cheese Fathers for each group.

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During the process, cheese inspectors examine the cheese with a 4 category process to ensure its quality.  Finally, the seller and buyer agree on a price in an interesting hand slapping process.

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All of these elements are traditional to how cheese was traded for centuries although it is now just a display for fun.  Cheese inspectors at today’s market share samples of the cheese with the crowd. They use a small plug device to extract a cylindrical piece of cheese from the huge cheese wheel.

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In addition, cheese maids wander the crowd selling cheese products.

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You can also purchase cheese and other treats at the market stalls around the square.

In addition to our visit to the market, we also stopped in the Cheese Museum.  It was a small but informative museum about the history of cheese making in The Netherlands, particularly Alkmaar.  There were many interesting artifacts.

So-did we eat any cheese?  But of course.  They just sell Gouda though you can get it in many different flavors.  We tried a young (couple month ripened) Gouda and an old (2 years ripened) cheese.  Both were very good!

A day in Alkmaar-now that’s how you say cheese!

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