A Stroll Through Kinderdijk

Saturday, we spent a pleasant morning at Kinderdijk just outside of Rotterdam.  Kinderdijk is a UNESCO World Heritage site because it is home to an astounding 19 original windmills (the site originally had 20 but one was lost) as well as pumping stations and dikes used to control water.  The windmills at Kinderdijk were constructed to pump water in order to both keep the river levels where they need to be to allow for the flow of water and to prevent flooding.  Why is this so important here?  The following can be found on the Kinderdijk website:

“The Netherlands looks back on a proud and ancient tradition of working together with the water. Like much of the rest of our country, Kinderdijk lies below sea level. If we would let nature run its course here, some 40% of the Netherlands would be flooded, and 60% would be under threat from the waters! Throughout the ages, the people who lived in these areas had to come up with clever solutions to stave off disasters.”

The Dutch are very proud of their ability to work with the sea and waters to preserve the land of The Netherlands and because that battle has required much ingenuity and perseverance, they even have a saying: “God created the world, but the Dutch created The Netherlands.”

After watching a short movie about the area and the life of a miller, we decided to stroll along the river and past the windmills and the surrounding areas(you also have the option to view the windmills by waterbus).  Two of the windmills were open for observation.  The first windmill was actually turning and demonstrated what the home would look like as well as how the windmill works.  On the inside, if you are willing to climb the steep stairs, you can see the mechanical parts at work.  The other windmill showed more of the lifestyle of the millers with a furnished inside and a cute garden with a few barn animals as well as an old style crank for drying laundry, which the kids could actually try out.  And, just in case you were wondering if windmills were only lived in way back when, many of the windmills are now private residences.

The weather was beautiful, there were lots of people out walking and biking, no one in our family was whining and we stopped and bought some poffertjes covered in butter and powdered sugar at a stand along the way-all in all it was a pretty good morning!

 

You can read more about Kinderdijk here: Kinderdijk

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Day in Bruges

Yesterday, we spent the day in the capital of West Flanders-Bruges, Belgium.  Upon arriving in Bruges, the first thing we did was pass under one of the original city gates.

 

We drove through the streets, which all had a very “old world charm” to them on our way to the market square.

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At the first city square, we saw some elaborate buildings.

In addition, we went into this church which is called The Basilica of the Holy Blood and was built in the 1100’s.

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The reason it is called this is that inside they have a vial that contains a cloth that is supposedly stained with the blood of Jesus.  According to the history, the blood was wiped off of Jesus onto this cloth after the crucifixion by Joseph of Arimathea and sealed in the vial which was brought from the Holy Land by Thierry of Alsace, Count of Flanders in the 1200’s.  They allow people to view the vial, which we did.  The vial is watched over by the woman in the photo and laying on a table in front of her.  After looking at it, she hands each group a prayer card with a prayer in many different languages.  It was interesting, though I must say, the children thought the contents of the vial were a little gross looking.

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We also grabbed some lunch in this first city square.  The adults decided to go traditional with a Flemish beef stew and Flemish rabbit (and some Belgium beer and fries of course!).  Both dishes were very good.

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After lunch, we walked to the Markt square.  Interestingly they were having a small parade and concert to commemorate the troops that helped the city during WWII, particularly some Canadian forces which liberated the city.

Next, we made our way to the Church of Our Lady, which houses Michaelangelo’s Madonna and Child sculpture-his only sculpture to leave Italy.  We weren’t able to see the sculpture on this day, but we have plans to go back for another event so we will hopefully see it then.

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We then visited Hospital Sint Jan, an 800 year-old hospital where monks and nuns took care of the sick, poor and travelers.  We were able to see the main area, the chapel, the attic, and the pharmacy.  The buildings house a museum with medical and pharmaceutical instruments, paintings and other relics of the past.

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While heavily invaded by tourists, the city was still very lovely as we wandered around.

 

To end our trip to Bruges, we left the busy city squares and other tourist areas and headed to an older district.  Aside from the modern cars, signs and parking meters, you could almost picture how it would have looked hundreds of years ago.

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Notice the door to nowhere and the metal hook below it-this is how they get the furniture to the upper floors.

This area also features a walking path with four turning windmills.

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All in all, though it was rather touristy, the city was very charming and had many interesting historical and cultural items.

And finally, on our way home, we saw these “mowers” working hard on the side of the road (they were there in the morning too, so it was an all day job)!

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A Brief Look at Dordrecht

We had a long weekend so we decided to go check out Dordrecht.  Dordrecht is in South Holland and is surrounded by water (three rivers meet here).  On this particular day, the area of the city that we were in felt deserted (we believe because it was a Monday).  There were lots of shops and cafes but nothing was open and very few people were out.  Despite the desolate feel, the area was very charming.

We began at the old church.  From there we stopped by an old city gate from 1625.

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We strolled along the harbor area and over to the narrowest street in the city.  Interestingly enough, the top is narrower than the bottom because shifting over time has caused the building to lean.

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We strolled along some lovely streets and canal areas and ended up at Het Hof.  It is now a museum, but it was once the site of a very important meeting.  Remember William of Orange (otherwise known as William the Silent) from an earlier post?  He was the one murdered in an area of Delft.  Well, when he began his attempt to free The Netherlands from the Spanish occupation, he gathered his fellow revolutionaries at Het Hof to discuss their plans and seal their alliance.

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Overall, it was a quiet hour or so, but a pleasant, quick excursion.

It Ain’t Easy, But Friends Help

Lest you think that moving your family to a foreign country is easy, let me enlighten you.  Is it hard being a stranger is a new culture?  Yes.  Is it hard not understanding the language?  Yes.  Is it hard not knowing where to find things or finding that things are just different?  Yes.  Is it hard to navigate through all the differences and new things?  Yes.  But all of that pales in comparison to the emotional struggle-most of which involves our children.  On an almost daily basis, we struggle with one or more of our children as they attempt to cope with the changes their lives have undergone.  As a result, on an almost daily basis, I struggle with the guilt of whether or not this was the right decision, or if I have systematically altered my children’s personalities and changed the course of their lives in a negative way forever;  and that’s a lot of guilt!  This constant state of living in an emotionally charged existence puts a strain on yourself and all of your relationships.  It’s a whole different level of hard.

The good news is that if you look and open yourself up, there are other people who are going through or have gone through the same thing.  I’m not sure how I would survive these ups and downs if we hadn’t connected with a group of other expats through the school.  Just being able to talk to these women (and laugh a little) and hear that they have gone through the same thing and that their kids have gone through the same thing and displayed the same behaviors, lightens the load a little.  Will this solve the issues?  No, of course not.  Will this make all of my guilt go away?  A wonderful thought, but no.  But, at least for a few minutes, it might help lessen that guilt and provide a ray of hope that this will pass; that we will survive and that someday our kids will be happy and thanking us (not murdering us in our sleep over unforgiven emotional scars)!  So, for now, here’s to friends, empathy, support and someday!

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Baby Steps- Strong Legs Required

Today, I took a baby step toward making a life here.  I went to the grocery store-alone and On My Bike!!!  This may sound like no big deal, but, for me, stepping out on my own in another country is huge.  And, in fact, I felt like it was a multistep process.

Step one-get on the bike path and make it to the store-check.  Step two-lock my bike in an appropriate “parking spot”-check.  Step three-get in the store and put a Euro in to use a shopping cart-check.  Step four-pull up my app that allows me to scan as I go and pay at self-check at the end-check (one of the machines wasn’t working so this almost sent me into a panic!).  Step five-maneuver around the other shoppers and get what I need whilst scanning and loading my shopping bags-check.  Step six-use my phone translator to translate a few items that I haven’t learned yet-check.  Step seven-successfully use the produce scale to weigh and print a ticket for scanning the item-check.  Step eight-return the scanner to download my purchases and then scan my app and pay-check.  Step nine-return my cart successfully so that I can have my Euro back-check.  Now here’s where it gets tricky; step ten-carry my three very large and heavy bags to my bike and get them loaded on.  This was a bit of a struggle.  Two bags went into the carrier that I have attached to my bike, but the other bag had to hang on my handlebar.  Nonetheless, I got them on and the bike unlocked-check.  Step eleven-and here’s where I was really panicking because this bike was weighted down-balance the bike and pedal hard enough to get home with that extra weight-check.  To complete this process, strong legs were required!

But here’s the funny part-strong legs weren’t just required for the pedaling.  I felt like I needed “strong legs” to get through the whole eleven step process.  I may or may not have had to talk quietly to myself today to reassure myself that I was, in fact, going to successfully complete this, but I did it.  My legs, taking those baby steps, were strong enough to get me through.  Perhaps, in a future step, I’ll need more strength, and I won’t quite make it.  But, if I keep trying and moving forward, I’ll make my legs stronger, and by the time I’m done with this experience in my life, man will I have some “strong legs” to stand on!

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D is for Delightful (or Delfshaven and Delft)

This past weekend we visited two locations that are very close to our home-Delfshaven and Delft.

Delfshaven is a historic district in Rotterdam.  There is a lovely canal area dotted with many historic boats.  Most of these boats are houseboats in which people live on a daily basis.  The area was very quiet even though just a block over was an incredibly busy street.  Some of the highlights of Delfhaven were an old windmill that has also served as a restaurant and the historic church which was the starting point of the pilgrims from The Netherlands that sailed on The Mayflower.  They began their journey in Delfshaven on a vessel called The Speedwell and sailed to England, joining The Mayflower to sail to America.  I honestly didn’t know that there were any Pilgrims from The Netherlands on The Mayflower, but my child informs me that everyone knows that!

 

Next, we visited Delft.  This was a lovely town with a great main square.  In the main square, you could see a church with a huge tower and the old town hall.  Lining the other sides of the square were small restaurants and cafes as well as shops selling items from clothing and housewares to souvenirs (including some beautiful Delft blue china pieces).

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Other areas around the square sported historic features such as old bridges and gates and this former single family home.

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In addition, there was a monastery dating back to the 1400’s that was the site of the murder of William, Prince of Orange, who led a Protestant revolution against the Spanish during the 1500’s (you can read more about that here:William, Prince of Orange).  The building is now used as a museum.

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We really enjoyed these two areas.  Not a bad way to spend a Saturday and Sunday afternoon!

The Container Has Arrived-Oh Happy Day…Right?

So, our belongings have finally arrived!  Watching all of those boxes being loaded into the house was so exciting.  I could hardly wait to open them up and start getting our things out.  All of our stuff was finally here!  But what I didn’t anticipate, was, that with that sense of relief and joy, there was another feeling.  Because as I relished the fact that all of our stuff was here, it also dawned on me that all of our stuff was here, meaning that this was, in fact, a permanent move and not just some temporary trip.  And reality set in.  The joy was tempered with some sadness, proving that you can feel two polar emotions at once.  Are we happy our things are here and will life be much easier with them? Absolutely!  Does that mean that life is easy and every day is positive?  Nope!  Just another part of the misadventure of being an Expat.

The Mussels from Brussels (Among Other Things)

Our first excursion out of The Netherlands was to Brussels, Belgium, which is a short hour and a half from our home.  Belgium borders both The Netherlands and France so both Dutch and French are spoken there-decidedly more French the further you go from The Netherlands’ border.  They also speak a mixed language known as Flemish.

Our first stop on arriving in Brussels was a small statue that has become very famous known as Manneken Pis.   Sometimes this statue is dressed in different costumes, but today he was au natural.

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Essentially it is just a fountain statue of a little boy tinkling.  But the street he is on is filled with souvenir shops, chocolate shops and Belgian waffle shops.  And almost all of them pay homage to the statue (like this chocolate version).

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After sampling a little Belgian waffle with white and semi sweet chocolate, we headed on to the Grand Place.  This is the center square of the city and houses the Town Hall as well as a museum and other buildings (hard to see in the picture but there is lots of gold overlay on the buildings).

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After the square, we walked through a market building with a very cool ceiling.  Again there were lots of chocolate shops (one even had a bust of their founder carved from chocolate), lace stores and a whole lot of displays with Smurfs-apparently they were created in Brussels.

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Next, we visited the cathedral of St. Michael and St. Gudula.  Being that it was Sunday, they were having mass so we were only able to see parts of the church.

 

Next we toured the Royal Palace, though the royal family do not actually live there.

They even had dinner ready for us!

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But, alas, we had to decline as we had more pressing matters such as viewing this room with a ceiling covered in beetle wings.

After the palace, we visited the Notre Dame du Sablon.  Mass was also being conducted here, so while we didn’t get to see a lot of the cathedral, we did get to hear some beautiful singing.

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After heading back to the main square for a lunch of mussels and beer and grabbing another Belgian waffle each (sorry no pictures-by the time we thought to take one, we had eaten it all! But, I can report that they were delicious!), we decided to leave Brussels and head north to Antwerp.

In Antwerp, we went to the Middelheim.  This is a large park with various modern art sculptures and other works spread along the walking paths.  It was an interesting trip-our son was excited to see a play area with swings, only to be disappointed when he got there and realized it was actually an artwork.  He felt that was trickery.  And all of us were a bit surprised to walk upon this statue (warning-not suitable for tender eyes!)

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So after a good laugh, we decided that we had had enough male genitalia for one day and headed back home.

All in all, our trip to Belgium was a nice day trip.  And I’ve got a few Belgian chocolates to try over the next few weeks, so I’d say it was a success!

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Feeling Dutch

Tonight we thought that we would be decidedly Dutch, so we made plans to bike to a little restaurant that we had seen in a park that we were biking through a few days ago.  It had clouded up considerably, so we decided to grab our raincoats, and then we jumped on our bikes and rode for about 10 minutes to the restaurant.  Along the way, we passed this field of geese and Highland cows.

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We had a nice meal sitting at the glass windows along a small lake.  When it was time to leave we hopped on our bikes, and had only ridden for about 1 minute when it started to rain.  In the next few minutes, we really felt Dutch because not only were we riding our bikes as transportation, but we were getting poured on while doing so.  I’m happy to report that our raincoats worked nicely.  Next investment-rainproof pants!!

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Technology Is a Life Saver

I am by no means a techie nor am I even a fan of technology at times but I will say that surviving in another country is so much easier with technology.  If we don’t know where to go, we pull out our Google maps or use the navigational system in the car-it will even tell us when a speed cam is coming up.  If we don’t know what something means, we can pull up our translator app and either type in a word or scan an entire area of text and get a translation.  If we are missing someone and want to communicate, we just pick up the phone or computer and reach out through messenger for a video phone call (though some people do need constant reminders that there is a time difference!).  We can watch our American TV shows through Hulu and Netflix here, and if we don’t know what store to go to for a particular item, we can just pull up an online site with translation assist and buy what we need.

I may be no fan of technology but I’m super glad we have it-it may just be what helps us to survive!

 

*Disclaimer-we have not tried to translate “Where can I find a cheeseburger.”

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